Can't believe what a pain this has been. Got everything put back together and the pan gasket is still leaking. Thought I did everything right putting it back together, even used a torque wrench to make sure that I didn't over-tighten the bolts.
The only thing I didn't do was use a ball peen hammer on the bolt holes on the pan to flatten (or over flatten) them. I'll have my pops help with this to make sure I'm doing it right, then post another how-to. I have a new Felpro gasket on order. It's not that easy to get stuff for a C3 transmission. Here's the part number: TOS18640